Approaching the Sagittarius
Embrace the joy
Energetic, creative and positive… these people fuel the energy needed to dream, create and succeed. Embrace the joy of life with the SAGITTARIUS. Tune into their world without hitting the wrong chord.
In this week’s Getting Through I’ll give you a few hints as to how to approach the male and female Sagittarius - without putting your foot in it. Remember, a playful, enthusiastic and optimistic approach will get you far. :-)
/Cathrine
Approaching the Sagittarius
Sagittarius | 22 November - 21 December
The Male
Ease into it.
Take the initiative, but be careful. This guy gets all nervous if he suspects someone is trying to tie him down.
Be classy
He appreciates style and good taste, while bad language can turn him off you completely.
...and interesting
When you have managed to capture his eye, make sure to make yourself as interesting as possible. The more of a challenge you are, the more interested he gets. However, don’t overdo it – never play hard to get!
Spark his curiosity.
Tell him about something interesting you’ve experienced and unusual places you’ve visited.
Listen.
Allow him to elaborate on his views and dreams.
Try something new.
Suggest having dinner in a lively restaurant, and introduce him to new flavours and exotic dishes. Suggest taking a day off and take off somewhere.
Positive vibes.
He wants a woman to bring out the sunshine and someone who will support his plans and ideas.
Whatever you do…
• DON’T disclose too much too soon; leave him guessing.
• DON’T make him feel cornered.
• DON’T use rough language.
• DON’T fuss about money.
• DON’T rely on your looks alone; keep your mind sharp.
• DON’T leave everything up to him; show some initiative.
• DON’T bombard him with negativity and criticize his views.
• DON’T whine and complain.
• DON’T restrict his freedom.
• DON’T tell him how to run his life – or try to run it for him.
The Female
No time-wasters, please!
The female Sagittarius has a great appetite for men, but she will never waste time on a bore!
Jump in.
She doesn’t mind taking chances, and that includes her love life as well. She won’t analyze a guy for ages. If she has fallen for a particular side to his personality, she will take a chance on him.
A bit of action.
She loves fun and excitement. Too many evenings at home will freak her out.
Sharp and smart.
Let her know you have an alert mind. Be attentive. Listen to all the things she tells you (which will be an awful lot…) and give her your opinion.
Humour is the key.
The female Sagittarius hates pessimistic guys, so take your problems and get gloomy somewhere else.
Be enthusiastic, and she will soon get enthusiastic about you.
Whatever you do…
• DON’T be jealous and possessive.
• DON’T be envious and criticize successful people.
• DON’T be easily offended.
• DON’T suggest traditional date things, unless with a twist.
• DON’T be pessimistic about the future.
• DON’T tease her with old-fashioned gender roles. She
doesn’t find that funny!
• DON’T plan the evening down to the last detail.
• DON’T be too physical, putting your arm around her, etc.
• DON’T tell her lame jokes.
• DON’T try to impress her with white lies.
No More Frogs by Cathrine Dahl
