Respect yourself - 7 sweet reminders

Power of Self

Nov 24

Self-respect lifts you up and makes you feel good. It gives you a relaxed confidence which makes it so much easier to appreciate, value and respect others.

It’s difficult, though. We tend to put the needs of others before our own - and in the end, we kick ourselves. Cut through. Put your foot down. In order to respect and value others, you need to respect and value yourself!

This week, I’m presenting 7 sweet self-respect reminders - and a slight nudge for each star sign.

Put your game face on and go for it. :-)

/Cathrine

7 sweet self-respect reminders

Never mind other people - do your own thing!
As long as you are being yourself, no one can criticize you. They may not like you, but that’s ok. We cannot please the entire world population. But they cannot critizice you for being YOU. Of course you can grow, develop and better yourself, but you do so because you want to - not in order to please others.
Value your time
Other people’s time does not have a higher value than yours. Practice the fine art of saying no.
Stand up for yourself
…the same way you would stand up for others.
Self-pity is a driving force... downwards
It’s normal to have days when you’re not in tune with the world and your best self - but don’t make a habit of it. Distract yourself by doing something you’re good at, something you really enjoy - and move forward one step at the time.
Be proud of yourself
In our society we’re not supposed to blow our own trumpet. RUBBISH! Blow that horn as strong as you can and get people to back you up with drums and smooth rhythms.
Give and take is equally important
If you constantly find yourself at the ‘giving’ end, ask yourself why. Do you have a problem with receiving or do you surround yourself with people who are not particularly generous? Either way, look into it…
Unless you are working for charity, there is no such thing as free work
This is not about helping each other. We should always be there to offer support and lend a helping hand whenever we can - but we should never be taken advantage of by an employer or a client. Your kindness is a gift which should never be taken for granted.

And a slight nudge to each star sign

Aries | 21 March - 20 April
NUDGE: Don't worry about not getting top rates for everything you do. Don’t allow others to be the measure of your success.

Taurus | 21 April - 20 May
NUDGE: Your loyalty is a treasure. Don't throw it around or gift it to people who do not deserve it!

Gemini | 21 May - 20 June
NUDGE: People may not always be able to follow your fast paced mind. Don't let this discourage you. Keep moving towards your goal.

Cancer | 21 June - 22 July
NUDGE: Be direct and make sure people understand you. If you need reassurance, ask for it. Don't assume that people know what you need.

Leo | 23 July - 22 August
NUDGE: Criticism could be a sign of envy - or a useful tool in order to move onward in your life. Don't let it upset you.

Virgo | 23 August - 22 September
NUDGE: Make sure to see the complete picture. Don't get distracted by a slightly negative detail when everything else is positive.

Libra | 23 September - 22 October
NUDGE: Don't fool yourself by pretending to complete a task in order to please yourself - when you're actually trying to seek approval from someone else.

Scorpio | 23 October - 21 November
NUDGE: Let go of what's bothering you. Let go of grudges you may hold against someone who's hurt you. Open the window and let some fresh air in.

Sagittarius | 22 November - 21 December
NUDGE: You don't have to win every argument. You don't have to get people to agree with you. Accept that we're different and let it slide.

Capricorn | 22 December - 19 January
NUDGE: As long as you've got a plan, just keep moving forward - but don't wear yourself out. Don't be too proud to ask for assistance.

Aquarius | 20 January - 18 February
NUDGE: It takes courage to stand out in the crowd, and sometimes it may feel a little lonely. Let your colours shine and be true to yourself.

Pisces | 19 February - 20 March
NUDGE: Things may not be as bad as you think. Communicate clearly and sort out misunderstandings. Avoid assuming what others may think.